HOW TO REACH SUCCESS (if it doesn't come to you, you go to it) [Tutorial]

   Seeking to master your dream? There are actually a million ways to succeed and a billion ways to fail. Life is very complex. It is like a rubic's cube which can be solved using a million combinations. Albeit, to err is human but to continue making errors is an evidence of stupidity.

   If you want to pursue something and you don't know where to start or maybe you have started but you failed and you don't know where to pick yourself up, here's a few things to keep in mind in order to get back on the game. There are actually several factors in the equation but here are the basics.

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BE A FOLLOWER BEFORE TURNING INTO A LEADER

    First and foremost, the beginning of the game is to become a follower. Remember that one or more people have gained mastery in their endeavors and so you must seek help from them. They are the experts in the field. Learn from the best there is.

FAILURE IS A MUST

   We are just humans and life is a trial and error. It is only natural for us to commit mistakes. You just have to know where you committed those mistakes. Take note of them and observe to not do it again. Only when you understand how it feels to fail, you will appreciate the feeling of reaching success so hug failures. They will remind you of how they were helpful in reaching success. No matter how much failures there are, if you are confident that you can, don't quit.

ROUTINE IS NOT ALWAYS BAD

   Some may have told you that repeating your daily steps might have caused you  a longer path to success which is basically bad. It implies that you created your own hindrance when you repeated steps and not seen any progression. Actually, there are kinds of progress that results from a long-run of repeated steps.

   Let's take a determination in mastering a certain craft. For an apprentice to master a craft, he or she must repeat steps. Practice makes perfect. Give time.

DETERMINATION, PASSION AND LOVE

   Of course, it is very much necessary that what you are working for is done with determination. You must consider it a dream that you long for. It requires love. Nothing beats love coupled with passion and determination.

TAKE RISK

   Take risk. Life is a gamble. Move away from your comfort zone because sometimes, your comfort zone is what keep you from reaching success. Try new trends. Try new experiments. Great things never came from comfort zones.

THINK POSITIVE

   Don't think that you are just wasting time for repeated steps or wasting money as investments. Thinking negatively only proves that you are not confident in what you are pursuing. it like thinking that plan B is necessary because plan A has flaws. Court serendipity. It can gain you more productive results. It's not bad to think of having doubts but sometimes, having plan B is a mindset to fail plan A. Be enthusiast.

LOOK AHEAD, FIND PROFIT

   Think in a futuristic perspective. Know in which moments and places you may commit a mistake. Plan ahead of time and choose which plan fits best to situations. Choose among those plans which are most profitable. It is up to you if you want a fast-phasing easy-win or a slowly-but-surely success.

COLLABORATE AND COOPERATE

   No man is an island. Unlikewise, every man is a bridge. Learn to cooperate and collaborate. We don't have all the abilities to perfect our endeavors. We need assistance. Manpower is necessary. Aristotle even said that each person should be able to attain a higher and better life by mutual exchange of different services.

   Learn how to work well with others. They also have the key to your success. You also have a key to their success. Pull each other up the ladder.

   Remember that success is not random. It is a matter of choice and choices doesn't always come at the right moment, at the right instance and at the right time. It undergoes a depth of contemplation before you realize that it is a good choice. Anyway, it is your life. You get to make your own rules.

   Lastly, don't be afraid of going from failure to failure. Just don't lose the Enthusiasm. Behind every successful man are many unsuccessful years. Don't ever give up on your goal just because of one setback. It is the same as slashing the other three tires of your car just because you have one flat. It is a very important recipe in cooking the greatest delicacy called Success.